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Perfection!!

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Perfection, Perfection, Perfection!!!, what a perfect little word to stress about right? Why are we so obsessed with perfection? Who set these standards? Sometimes these kind of questions just bugs me. Nowadays due to Instagram, everyone wants to show how perfect they are or how perfect their lives are, how the food that they are having looks aesthetically pleasing and much more.  The whole point of Instagram was for people to show themselves immersed in their lives so much that they don't care about filters and emojis and which side of their face is more photogenic.  I genuinely feel that the generation of our parents was so sorted because they were so busy living their own lives that they didn't even care about Ramesh sitting in the opposite corner of the globe, eating or where he was going with his friends.  I sometimes feel so overwhelmed after being on Instagram for a while and seeing reels and posts of someone my age who is earning lakhs or how broken a 14-year-old ...

Everything makes a Diffference.

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Now for a few days, I have been living with my uncle, aunty and their two kids. They are really fun. But today I was having brain fog as a lot of things were happening simultaneously. Didn't know whom to ask where to focus and when. So I woke up and went towards my go-to therapy place. I took my bike from the basement sat on it and rode it to the therapy place did nothing fancy but just sat down on the sand, closed my eyes and listened to the sounds of waves crashing and the feeling of a cool breeze on my skin.  While I was sitting I randomly thought of opening the 'Notes' app for a change rather than any social media app on my phone and decided to read my old notes. For context, I have a habit of making notes of every shit that I find I'll just write and never look at it ever again. For if I come across a phrase that I find cool or if I am reading a book or I read a certain word that I don't know the meaning of  I google it and note it down and when mummy gives me ...

Spirituality the cheat code to life

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  Are you a spiritual person? Do you believe in all the super natural (still not discovered) things that happen around us? Okay leave that for a while, we will get back to it afterwards. Answer me this, ‘Have you ever played Grand Theft Auto i.e., GTA?’ I was really a huge fan of that game. I used to spend hours and hours playing that game. And I’m sure most of you guys are also familiar with this game and how addictive it is. Do you remember if any mission used to get very tough then what we used to do? Yes ‘Use Cheat Codes’. Some very unusual words we used to type and suddenly we used to get an upgrade to our character and with this new super power it seemed like a child’s play to win that particular mission, isn’t it? Now what if we looked at our lives in the same way? Don’t you feel like our life is just a game and we are the main character in it. All those huge life problems are the main missions and then we also have the midlife crisis that we have to face everyday as...

Luck-Battles-Acceptance

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Hello, I know it's been a while since I talked to you guys, but I promise to be regular from now on.  So tell me do you believe in luck?.. If yes then you were and are undoubtedly lucky (haha). If not then this is for you. Try to think about the unluckiest moments of your life.  What are they? maybe you fractured your arm in a car accident, maybe you fell ill, maybe what you didn't study in the exam is what gets asked the most, maybe your girlfriend or your wife leaves you, maybe you get scolded by your teacher, maybe no one understands you, maybe you are fat, maybe you are too thin, maybe you don't have enough money, maybe you have no friends, maybe someone you knew died.... This list goes on and on and on. There's no saying where it'll end and I am sure there's no actual end to it, it's the same as our life. People always find inconvenience first. And by people, I mean people like me and you. I know we all are humans and we are internally wired this way, b...

Hasty love

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I know it's late but I promise it won't happen again. Now enjoy. So you know as each of my blogs starts with me sitting and talking to my friends and observing them and then suddenly getting an epiphany about society. So this time also it's the same, we were sitting and talking and one of my friends said he was going to see a girl and the girl actually agreed to see him (haha). I won't say we were surprised (because he reads my blogs) but we were curious. Yeah, let's go with curious.  Then we asked about her and what she does and what she looks like and stuff. You know the usual but seemed unusual because he was at the other side answering all those questions but not asking (haha).  After a couple of questions we found out that she was 2 years older than him which we thought was obvious because his name was Arjun and he looks kind of like Nick so you know, we made fun of that.  But after further investigation we found out that she had a 'Chava' I kid you not...

The midnight you...

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 Hi there, how are you doing? I know it's not that great but you are surviving and fighting, for which I'm so proud of you. Recently I am coming across a lot of people saying that, they are depressed at night they get a lot of bad thoughts, and as a matter of fact even I feel the same way.  And questions such as, Why does it only happen to me at night? occurred to me. And then after a while, I gave it a thought I came across a certain explanation for it, which I found very much sensible, very convincing so I'm gonna share that with you today. According to me, the only reason you feel blue at night is that at night the only company you have is of your thoughts, your feelings, your emotions. There is no external factor to it. You are the real you with your real thoughts at that very moment. For example, you don't suddenly start to miss someone at night. Actually, you miss them throughout the day but only because at night your feelings, emotions, thoughts are not influence...

Blinded

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Hi everyone, having a good day? I know you are. So I know I am not the only one whose mom has been exploiting Youtube like anything. My mom has really gone deep into all those voodo stuff like vastu Shani, Rahu, Ketu etc. Every morning I have to listen to some bhajans and the these bhajans are never constant because in some days my mom again goes on Youtube and sees another couple of videos which eventually changes her whole thinking process. And also she's really into God and keeps all those fasts so she doesn't eat for at least three days per week then eventually starts feeling weak. So apart from that, it really got me into thinking that why do we need to do all this just to impress god? Doesn't he already knows everything? Now a days people are being so crazy in order to impress god that they are actually forgetting how to be a humanbeing. Each and everyone are just standing in line on an early Saturday with a some oil, couple of sesame seeds and garland to impress thei...