The right person...

What is this so called right person, and why is it so hard to find him/her?

 So recently one of my friend posted a meme on Instagram and it was about how a right person comes in you're life at wrong time. Some of my friends found it really relating and there was me who had a bit of different opinion on it and then I shared my opinion and then one of my friend asked me to write a blog about it so here we are.

So according to me a right person is someone who ease your pain and heal you from whatever sort of pain you have suffered in the past and whatever pain you are going through right now.

lets consider a example, there's a girl named Shruti, she is a very fantastic human being she's cheerful she's sarcastic she looks cute has lots of friends can make anyone talk to her, but the only thing she craves is the need of being taken care of. One day a person comes in Shruti's life a boy named Ankush. Ankush is a very sweet guy very smart and shroud gets good grades is good with people never leave anyone behind and takes everyone and go and very handsome and very independent but was very non expressive.

And in few days Shruti and Ankush start to feel a sort of attraction towards each other they start meeting each other privately start going out to eat, click pictures together and they both had that feeling or tension between them that spark and, eventually they fell for each other, and start dating and it was all good for couple of months both were actually happy.

Slowly and steadily they start to learn about each other's actual behaviour and the behaviour that actually made difference was the need of being taken cared of and being pampered, of Shruti and Ankush's being inexpressive . After learning this about each other they kind of matched as if they were meant to be.

Now by luck this happened that Shruti's being taken cared of behaviour was compensated by Ankush's people skills and Ankush's secretive behaviour was covered by Shurti's cheerfulness and how she could make anyone talk to her and tell her stuff, now this a a very once in a blue moon scenario where we say he/she got his/her better half or the right person.

Like I said it  was a very rare love story where everything works in that first shot but it's not always the case you might find yourself with a lot of wrong decisions regarding your relationship and its okay everyone makes mistakes, just stop wasting you're energy on someone who is not the right person for you. 

The definition of Right Person vary from person to person, kind of like every person's problems are different and so are the solutions. So the right person is gonna help you with your problems and make you grow and prosper by helping you in everything you do everything that is important to you is important to them and so on and so forth.

In the above given example what if Shruti and Ankush both wanted to be taken care of, what if they both expected the same things from each other? Then there is a huge problem because if you are expecting something from someone and the other also expects the same thing then who will actually fulfil that? both of them will be waiting thinking the other person will fulfil my expectations the other person is gonna do this for me but while both are waiting for things to happen and no one is actually working towards it then there comes frustration then fights and what not, it might also result in separation between them.

Now here comes the saying 'Opposites Attract'. This proverb actually mean, 'To offer what other is lacking' which means fire and fire are not compatible water and water are not compatible. Fire needs water to cool itself down and a water needs fire to warm up. If I have to explain more then a person who loves to talk wont be happy with the person who loves to talk too because they both lack the skill to listen now a person who loves to talk would feel that the person who loves to hear is the right person for him /her.

So it's a bit hard to find a person with the same frequency(vibe) as you want or with the qualities that you lack. Its hard but not impossible, just wait for a while the right person for you is right around the corner waiting for you all you have to do is venture it with a little caution at first because even creeps hangout at the corner of the roads which are just dead ends, you might not see it but it eventually ends up bad and the worst part is its just you that gets affected not that creep so just be a little cautious at first it will pay for a longer time or even forever.

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