Luck-Battles-Acceptance

Hello, I know it's been a while since I talked to you guys, but I promise to be regular from now on. 

So tell me do you believe in luck?..

If yes then you were and are undoubtedly lucky (haha). If not then this is for you.

Try to think about the unluckiest moments of your life. 

What are they? maybe you fractured your arm in a car accident, maybe you fell ill, maybe what you didn't study in the exam is what gets asked the most, maybe your girlfriend or your wife leaves you, maybe you get scolded by your teacher, maybe no one understands you, maybe you are fat, maybe you are too thin, maybe you don't have enough money, maybe you have no friends, maybe someone you knew died....

This list goes on and on and on. There's no saying where it'll end and I am sure there's no actual end to it, it's the same as our life. People always find inconvenience first. And by people, I mean people like me and you. I know we all are humans and we are internally wired this way, but come on till when are we going to just rely on this same old assumption and just keep on doing what we do best, Complaint.

Oh, I got a fracture, oh, my head hurts, oh, no one understands me, blah blah blah. Just go through with it already. Complaining about it is just gonna make it worse. You are not dead yet it's just a fracture, you should be happy it wasn't your head. Now tell me this isn't luck. Oh, no one understands me, bro, then why the hell are you wasting your precious and unique self on someone who just doesn't get how awesome you are. And even after you keep on going to all the people around you and still have the same problem then there's something wrong with you,  everybody cannot be crazy right.

 Just accept things and move on. This is life, everyone has their ups and downs, twists and turns. Everyone has their own quirks, their own problems, and their own battle to fight. And everyone is trying their best in fighting all those problems so as it is everyone is annoyed and if you go on complaining about your little pea under loads of mattress which is pricking you, then it's obvious that most people won't listen to you nor will they entertain you.

We are really not living in an idealistic world where everyone helps each other and is nice to each other. Everyone has their own reasons and their own circumstances to do what they do and believe what they believe. You and I are merely doing anything. But if you can't help anybody then at least don't do any harm to them and always remember, Don't rob hope from anybody, that might be the only thing they have.

 Some people are exceptions and are that kind-hearted to actually listen to someone else's problem.s and help them. This doesn't mean you should always rely on that one person forever, when you do this try putting yourself in their place. How would you feel if an annoying little rat is always squeaking in your ear? So don't be dependent on anybody cause in the end you are on your own and the person you are relying on is on their own too. Neither she is going to help you and nor are you.

We need to first look within and be familiar with all our issues and then accept ourselves for who we are. If even we don't accept us for us then how will we expect society to do the same? 

Acceptance is the key, you have to stop denying your problem it's just gonna hurt more and for a long time. Just accept that you are messed up in some or the other way. But sometimes after acceptance, you start to go hard on yourself, and you start to feel horrible about yourself for having a problem. Because in the past you denied it all along but now that you've accepted it seems a very huge deal and digesting this needs far more time and patience than improving on it. 

 I'm sure you can do it, everyone has to at the end. It's just the sooner you get that the sooner you will be more confident, calmer, and more resourceful than ever. Cheers.

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.BTW if you haven't watched the series 'After Life', you totally should. It'll help in putting a lot of things in perspective and will surely leave an impact on you.

No boring intros just directly start with the story. It's about a man who has recently lost his wife to cancer and that has left him feeling sad and depressed. So he decides to live his life on his own terms do whatever he wants, be brutal and honest with everybody as if it is his superpower and always have to kill himself as the bed he can fall to when he feels like it.

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